What kind of lifestyle do you have? Will you have the time to spend with your dog every day, to exercise it and provide companionship? Do you work long hours away from home? Do you spend your spare time doing quiet activities or are you an active person? Will you enjoy brushing a dog or should you get a shorthaired dog? Do you need a dog that is good with kids?
Where will you keep the dog? Do you rent? If so, are you willing to make a commitment to always find a property to rent that will allow dogs? Will it live in the house? Do you have a fenced yard from which your pet cannot escape?
Who will take care of it? Be realistic about this. A 5-year old child is not capable of being responsible enough to take care of a dog. Getting a dog to teach responsibility is not a good idea unless the child is old enough and genuinely wants a dog. In most families, an adult ends up taking care of the dog. Does this person really want the dog, and does he/she have the time to take care of a puppy?
Who will do the training and socializing? In most families, this will again be an adult. Training and socialization are vital to having a dog that is a true companion for your family. Approximately 90% of dogs turned into shelters are dogs that have behavioral problems. Over 90% of these former pets have had no training!
Now that you’ve decided you are ready to get a puppy, you need to do your homework and decide what kind of dog to get, where to get it, and if you want a puppy or an older dog. This takes time and research but can make the difference between getting a healthy, well-adjusted addition to your family or a dog that does not fit in your lifestyle at all. While you want to find a dog that appeals to you in looks, some dogs that you think are pretty will not fit into your lifestyle.
What age dog should you get? A puppy needs to be taken outside many times a day, and even several times a night. They will be teething and chewing on anything they can find. They will, in play, “bite” people like they would their littermates. People do not play like that and children can be hurt or scared. It may be better to get an older dog. An older dog may already be housebroken, is past the teething and adolescent stage, and can usually sleep through the night. Sometimes a breeder will have an older puppy or even a retired show dog that they would be willing to place in a loving home. Breed rescue groups will have dogs in their care for adoption that may be perfect for you. Also, shelters and SPCA’s have older dogs.
The advantage of getting a purebred dog is that you know approximately how big it will be, what kind of coat it will have, and that there are certain characteristics that are common to the breed. Good breeders will also have been socializing the puppies since birth and will have had health testing done on both parents. Their puppies are usually raised in the breeder’s home so they are used to the sights and sounds of a household and being around people. The mother of the litter is usually there so that you can meet her and see what her temperament is like. The American Kennel Club (AKC) website has a link to each of the breeds that are registered with them. You may want to attend a dog show in your area to observe the breeds you like. Most handlers and breeders are willing to talk to you after they have shown their dogs.
Mixed breed dogs can make excellent pets and it is very rewarding to rescue a dog from a shelter. However, it may be hard to tell how big a mixed breed dog will be (unless it’s already full-grown, of course), how long its hair will be, or what characteristics the parents passed on to the puppy. In most cases you will not know the circumstances in which the dog has lived. If you take your time and select a dog that responds well to you and your family, you could end up with the perfect addition to your family.
All types of breeders advertise in newspapers or on the internet. You must learn to ask the questions that will help you get a good dog and not be fooled by slick advertising. Purebred puppies should be registered with the AKC (American Kennel Club), UKC (United Kennel Club), or CKC (Canadian Kennel Club). However, remember that AKC/UKC/CKC papers are simply a registry of quantity, not of quality. You should become an educated shopper when searching for a puppy that will be a lifetime member of your family.
Your puppy will go through two fear periods before it’s a year old. The first is usually when the puppy is about 8 weeks old. The second is sometime during the adolescence. During this time the puppy may seem to be afraid of many things that he/she was never afraid of before. This is normal and will pass if you do not make a big deal out of it. It is also important to make sure the puppy is not teased or scared by people or dogs during these periods. During adolescence, usually between 6 months and 1 year, the puppy will act like a teenager and will become somewhat unruly. This too shall pass!
One of the most important things you can do for your dog is to train it. A well-behaved dog is a pleasure to be around and will make you proud. Training also greatly increases the bond you have with your dog. Dogs easily learn to sit, down, stand, stay, come, and walk on a loose leash. There are many, many more things that a dog is capable of learning (most dogs LOVE learning and working with you). We have several articles on training on our website. The American Kennel Club offers a Canine Good Citizen test that is open to all dogs, both purebred and mixed-breed. This is a wonderful program that shows that your dog is a well-behaved companion. All dogs are capable of learning and performing the requirements of the test. We encourage all dog owners to train their dogs for this citizenship test.
A major decision you will have to make is whether you should have your dog spayed or neutered. If you are considering breeding your dog, please read our article on breeding and decide if you are able to accept the responsibilities that come with breeding. In most cases, spaying a female is recommended. It eliminates the heat cycles and the risk of pyometra and reduces the risk of mammary cancer. Owning an un-spayed female is a major responsibility. Even if you have a fenced yard, male dogs can climb over or crawl under your fence when a female in heat is the incentive. The heat cycle usually lasts 3 weeks and the female usually drips blood for the first week. The average female comes in heat every 6 months. Owners of female dogs that are not spayed must be extremely vigilant to watch for the first signs of a heat cycle (usually swelling of the vulva which may be very slight). During the 3 weeks or more that she is in heat, the owner must never let the dog outside unsupervised. Precautions must even be taken when leaving the dog in the house (males have been known to come through screen doors or windows for a female in heat). If you are planning to breed, a female can be bred by several different males (in fact, every puppy in a litter could have a different father) so the owner of a female must be vigilant for at least 3 weeks at least twice a year.
Owners of male dogs should consider having their dog neutered. Neutering will not make your dog less masculine. It will keep him from being as attracted to females in heat, which will decrease his tendency to roam (most counties have leash laws, so your loose dog could be picked up by Animal Control and a fine incurred to get him back). It will also decrease his tendency to be aggressive towards other male dogs. This will make him much easier to deal with in public. He will be less likely to mark objects in your house, but he will still look like a male dog and lift his leg.
A last part of being a responsible dog owner is to clean up after your dog. Carry a baggy or two in your pocket whenever your dog is with you. Turn it inside out, put your hand in it, pick up the poop, turn the back right side out, and seal it. This will help make dogs welcome in parks and other places. If you travel with your dog, keep it crated if it may be destructive (or when you are not in the room) or bring a sheet from home to put over the bedspread to keep the motel’s bed coverings clean. Don’t leave your dog alone in the motel room if it will bark, and, do not let it bark at people walking past your door.
Following these basic guidelines will help to make sure you have a happy, healthy, well-mannered dog that you will be proud to have with you at all times.
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